Parents happy The Deceased

There are three obligations of children to parents after the death; pay debts if any, to engage with friends and family, and pray.

It is common knowledge, that rare child who 'durable' filial to his parents after his parents died.

Said a friend, at best only until 40 days after the death of the children will remember their parents.

After that, loose, like there has never been a parent in his life.

While another friend said, diziarahi was the most one or two years after the death.

After that, let alone be visited grave, sent Fatiha (prayer recited) did not.

Children with devotion, boundless at the age of parents.

After taking too should remain humble.

Rasul said, khidmatnya child to parents who had died there three,


1. pay debts if any,

2. engage with friends and family parents,

3. and pray.

And this is a service that should not stop only at the count of 7 days, 40 days, one hundred days, one and two years.

Forever, for the rest of our lives.

Although all comes from God,

we both know, in the absence of parents, we will not be born into this world.

For the parents we be there.

The period then we forget about it?

Moreover, when we remember the pangs of them, their misery,

when we are still in the womb, when we were little, and so on.

Noteworthy is also the following expression, as our treatment of our parents, so, too, one day we will be treated by our children's future.

Try it disobedience to parents, then we would have disobeyed the future of our children. Want to?

As our treatment to the parents, so also in the future we would be treated.

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